Receive and Celebrate

I have achieved so many things in my life. I clearly remember how proud my dad was when I passed matric. When I graduated from UJ, I was incredibly excited and I recall how, after many job interviews, I was excited about getting my dream job and being employed by a company I had always dreamt of working for.

As a DJ, I have travelled the world, met and interacted with amazing people. I have managed to build a name for myself, been part of big TV shows and my music has been celebrated and enjoyed by millions of people all over the continent. I have been nominated and performed at the biggest award shows in this country and I managed to build my dream house. All of these achievements are things I had to work hard for.  I continue to put a huge amount of effort into everything I do but I have noticed that the excitement and gratification I get from all of these achievements is short lived. None of these things have given me what I would call eternal happiness. The excitement and meaning quickly wears off.

Nothing comes easy in life, I really had to put in major effort for everything I have achieved and I am grateful for everything I have.

There is something that I didn’t have to work for, it was given to me. I didn’t have to prove myself in order to qualify for this, yet it is the most fulfilling gift I have ever received. It has given me eternal happiness and allowed me to experience unconditional love.

This is the one thing I receive and celebrate with open arms and a willing heart, the gift of being a mother.

After Kiaro was born, people would ask me about my experience as a mom and I told them that I didn’t even feel like a mother. I was saying this because I didn’t feel  worthy of such a big role. Thirty-four months later, I finally feel like a real mom, a great mom. Raising Kairo has been both challenging and rewarding but I am very proud of the mother I have become.

I am finally accepting that I am worthy of this incredible role. I am ready to discover and learn more about my child and myself. I am not perfect and that is okay because motherhood might mean that I am blessed, chosen and great but it does not mean that I have to be perfect.

So I am no longer hard on myself. I do my best in the most loving and honest way possible. I am now realising how great my mother was as a parent to us. She was a loving warrior and she taught us so many lessons that have carried us through our lives.

I feel joy knowing that I am a great mother. Kairo is my gift and I  have been trusted to love her and take care of her. It’s not my job to question my role or doubt my worth but it is my duty to receive and celebrate it everyday. I celebrate that I am a great mom and will continue to be the best mother I can possibly be.

I celebrate myself.

I celebrate all mothers.

I hope you can celebrate yourself too.

Have a joyful and blessed Mothers Month.

Photography by Kist Photography

I would like to encourage you to go back to our old blogs as I find that the lessons and advice shared on those posts is still powerful and relevant.  I would like to challenge you to always share a post after you’ve read it. The idea is to touch and help as many people as possible.

Thank you,

Zinhle

 

 

12 Comments, RSS

  1. lizzy.lgl72@gmail.com'

    Lizzy May 21, 2018 @ 10:45 am

    I am still a student at uj but reading this moments by DJ Zinhle made me realise that working hard can make you achieve all your goals young as you are thank you for such a motivation. May God bless you even more.

  2. Unandivhondou@gmail.com'

    Ndivho ndou May 21, 2018 @ 11:05 am

    This is a great achievement so far indeed your a great mom , we as your followers we can see that you are a brave kind of woman and a wise woman i hope you get back with your baby father I love you guyz.

  3. Christinabooysen31@gmail.com'

    Christina Booysen May 21, 2018 @ 1:09 pm

    An inspiration
    Amazing role model
    A mother to the nation
    It truly takes a village to raise a child
    We appreciate you DJ zinhle,kairo’s mom

  4. rtratidipheko@gmail.com'

    Ratanang May 21, 2018 @ 1:18 pm

    I love you Di Zinhle…ur fan from Botswana??????

  5. sibongisenim@wdb.co.za'

    Sibongiseni Malakoane May 21, 2018 @ 1:30 pm

    Thank you for the informative blog Zinhle ?

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